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The Awakened Lifestyle:
New York's Best Dating Coach

John Keegan, world-renowned dating coach and relationship expert, teaches you the authentic way to attract, date, and find love anywhere. As New York City's premiere dating coach, John empowers men and women to have fulfilling dating lives and relationships with themselves and others.

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"It’s His Job. He Likes It. He’s Good At It.”
- New York Times

"[John] takes charge of chaos. This city is so random and chaotic...Most people just hope that chaos will spin their way...They hope that if they keep with their routine, they will somehow collide with something good. But [John] forces these collisions. [He] collides with everything around [him].”

 -Brandon Stanton of "Humans of New York”

“John Will Teach You How To Talk to just about any girl” 

-Roger Hailes Mansome


"John unlocks the mystery of meeting women in everyday locations, including cafes, bookstores and art galleries”

- Jason Fell ENTREPRENEUR Magazine

"After my breakup, I didn't know where to start, but I knew if I want to learn to golf, I hire the best golf coach in the world, if I want to learn guitar, I hire the best guitar teacher in the world, if I want to learn how to be charming, I hire the best dating coach in the world.”

- Bill, Entrepreneur

"Not only is John one of the best coaches out there, he is one of my best friends in the world, and I would recommend him to anyone!"

-David Wygant

  • World-renowned dating coach John Keegan being featured in Brandon Stanton's Humans of New York
  • Fox and Friends interviews New York City based dating coach and expert John Keegan
  • Spike TV asks award-winning dating coach and expert John Keegan how to meet women
  • NYC Dating coach and Relationship Expert John Keegan is featured in Men's Health on how to meet women at a bar
  • Roger Hailes from Mansome interviews dating coach and expert John Keegan on how to meet women without pickup
  • The New York Times features world-renowned dating coach and instructor John Keegan as the ladies man
  • New York City Dating Expert and Relationship Coach John Keegan featured in Entrepreneur magazine
  • New York Magazine features NYC top dating coach and expert John Keegan
  • New York's best dating coach and relationship expert John Keegan in the Huffington Post


New York's Top Dating Expert John Keegan Will Show You How!

Recent Videos:

Improvisation and Meeting Women

  ​ In this video I teach you how to be fun, silly, and playful. Its a great video to watch because as I am being improvisational with my good buddy David Wygant we attract a playful cute girl who is passing by into the improv. When you learn to improv with women every conversation…

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Get Into The Ultimate State: The State of Authenticity

I often hear guys say “I have to get into state”. Like there is this magic state to get into where you can finally be yourself. The state they are often trying to get into a super high energy (almost fanatic state), like they are at a frat party and had 10 beers. There are…

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How To Give A Direct Compliment To A Girl On The Street (Live InField)

This short video shows you how to quickly introduce yourself to a girl. Even though she is extremely busy will she give John Keegan her number? TO SEE FULL VIDEO: http://theawakenedlifestyle.com/dating-videos/ The Awakened Lifestyle: http://theawakenedlifestyle.com John Keegan is an award-winning dating coach and founder of the Awakened Lifestyle. The Awakened Lifestyle is about transcending the…

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The Social Life With David Wygant and John Keegan

Do you section off your social life between the hours of 10pm and 2am on Saturday night. So many people hide out during the week and avoid social contact and then the weekend comes and its time to get wrecked and make it happen. David and I explain how to avoid that trap and build…

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Conversation Tips: What To Do When You Can’t Think Of Anything To Say

  I’m not sure what to say so I am just not going to say anything. That’s the story of most guys on any given day. How many times have you been in a conversation and didn’t know what to say next got anxious and left? It’s so uncomfortable that it can stop you from…

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Inner Game Tips: The Way To The Greatest Outcome

We spend our lives seeking an outcome just outside of ourselves but often the greatest outcome alludes us. Watch this Video now and discover the way to the greatest outcome. Looking forward, John PS. Check out the new site and explore new coaching programs. PSS. For those of you asked for better video and sound…

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Recent Articles:

Breaking The Literal Pattern: How To Not Be Boring

Today I want to share with you one of the Core Principles of my teaching. It’s a concept I call “Breaking The Literal Pattern”. Once you understand it and master it every conversation with any women, in fact with anybody, will be unique and interesting. Its the way to fun and its the way to…

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How To Flirt With Ease

Do you ever feel stiff when you are talking to a women? You feel like you analyzing every word flying out of your mouth and the little man in your head is criticizing everything you do. The main problem is your are seeking something doesn’t exist, perception. You think flirting with a women should be…

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How To Make Every Conversation Exciting: The Listening Exercise

To secret to fun exciting conversations is Listening.  In this video I teach you how to make meaningful connections through listening.  

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Are You A Visionary?

Do you have a vision for your life? For your dating life, for your relationship life, what do you want to experience and why do you want to experience it?  Is it just some general feeling of discontent?  The feeling that I don’t have what I want? Most of us walk around feeling like that, and it’s…

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What Does An Attractive Man Believe In

Are your beliefs destroying your ability to experience the life you desire? Are your beliefs keeping you stuck and alienated from the people you want to connect with? Are your beliefs making you feel less then Awesome? Do you believe you are not enough? Do you believe that there is not enough in the world…

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How To Become Ageless

How old are you? How many times do you get asked that question, how often does it feel good to answer that? What is the purpose of the question, “How old are you?” Every time you read a magazine about a famous person, or any person in a newspaper article, they always identify the person…

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