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The Awakened Lifestyle:
New York's Best Dating Coach

John Keegan, world-renowned dating coach and relationship expert, teaches you the authentic way to attract, date, and find love anywhere. As New York City's premiere dating coach, John empowers men and women to have fulfilling dating lives and relationships with themselves and others.

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"It’s His Job. He Likes It. He’s Good At It.”
- New York Times

"[John] takes charge of chaos. This city is so random and chaotic...Most people just hope that chaos will spin their way...They hope that if they keep with their routine, they will somehow collide with something good. But [John] forces these collisions. [He] collides with everything around [him].”

 -Brandon Stanton of "Humans of New York”

“John Will Teach You How To Talk to just about any girl” 

-Roger Hailes Mansome


"John unlocks the mystery of meeting women in everyday locations, including cafes, bookstores and art galleries”

- Jason Fell ENTREPRENEUR Magazine

"After my breakup, I didn't know where to start, but I knew if I want to learn to golf, I hire the best golf coach in the world, if I want to learn guitar, I hire the best guitar teacher in the world, if I want to learn how to be charming, I hire the best dating coach in the world.”

- Bill, Entrepreneur

"Not only is John one of the best coaches out there, he is one of my best friends in the world, and I would recommend him to anyone!"

-David Wygant

  • World-renowned dating coach John Keegan being featured in Brandon Stanton's Humans of New York
  • Fox and Friends interviews New York City based dating coach and expert John Keegan
  • Spike TV asks award-winning dating coach and expert John Keegan how to meet women
  • NYC Dating coach and Relationship Expert John Keegan is featured in Men's Health on how to meet women at a bar
  • Roger Hailes from Mansome interviews dating coach and expert John Keegan on how to meet women without pickup
  • The New York Times features world-renowned dating coach and instructor John Keegan as the ladies man
  • New York City Dating Expert and Relationship Coach John Keegan featured in Entrepreneur magazine
  • New York Magazine features NYC top dating coach and expert John Keegan
  • New York's best dating coach and relationship expert John Keegan in the Huffington Post


New York's Top Dating Expert John Keegan Will Show You How!

Recent Videos:

A Secret Way To See

By johnkeegan
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Hi Guys, a good life is a life lived by your interest and passions.  A Good life starts and ends with your relationship with yourself.  The better that relationship (your prime relationship) the greater the life experiences you will have.  In order to have great friends and date amazing women that add value to our…

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How To Be An Engaging Man

By johnkeegan
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  Ever feel like you don’t know how to make a conversation interesting?  I hear a lot of guys say they “hate small talk”.  They feel like by making small talk they are being fake.  Many men are just to black and white or to literal.  When women ask them questions they give one word…

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Your Prime Relationship Is With YOU!

By johnkeegan
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Hi Guys, throughout your life you will know many people.  Both lovers and friends will change over time but you will always have you!  In this video I talk about the importance of your relationship with you. Looking forward, John PS Become the man you always wanted to be now! check out my courses here:https://theawakenedlifestyle.com/dating-coaching-for-men/

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Recent Articles:

The Moment Before The Most Important Moment Of Your Life

By johnkeegan

Hi Guys, I have been fortunate enough to have had many great experiences in my life!  But the reality is before every experience worth having is fear and risk.  In this video I tell you how to deal with the moment before the moment. Looking forward, John Ps. Become you now! Check out my courses…

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The Power of Music In Seduction

By johnkeegan

HI Guys, What kind of music do you like?  What’s a song you are into right now? Musicians are often know to have women swoon over them.  By Why? Men always play music when they bring a girl back to their place.  But Why? Music cuts through the mind and moves us past logic. It…

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The Worlds Most Misunderstood Men (Mic.com)

By johnkeegan

Hi Guys, I am featured in this article on mic.com.  Its an interesting article that sheds light on a lot of the low frequency guys who are part of the “pick up world”. The article ends with me as an alternative.  I never was a part of that world and I never want to be.…

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Game Isn’t Real!

By johnkeegan

A few years ago I worked with a client who was in his late 30’s. He had a successful business and was a really really smart guy.  He’d  come out of a bad relationship a few years before and went on a journey to better himself and meet the women he really wanted to date.…

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