Struggling with Dating Apps? You’re Not Alone.
If you’re tired of swiping for hours and still getting ghosted, unmatched, or ignored—you’re not the only one. Most guys are silently frustrated with dating apps… and they don’t know what else to do.
You tweak your bio, change your pics, even try witty openers—but the results stay the same: disappointing.
That’s because dating apps are a trap for most men, and the real fix isn’t online. It’s in you.
The Brutal Math of Online Dating
Here’s the truth nobody tells you: dating apps are stacked against the average man.
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Women are flooded with attention
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Algorithms push you down if you’re not constantly engaged
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You become another profile in a sea of sameness
If you’re not photogenic, tall, or a text game genius—it can feel hopeless.
So What’s the Alternative?
Real-life.
Face-to-face.
In-the-moment connection.
Learning how to meet women in the real world—whether in a café, on the street, at a bookstore—is the most powerful skill a man can develop in today’s swipe-obsessed culture.
And that’s exactly what I coach men to do.
Meet Women in Real Life (Even If You’ve Never Done It Before)
In my 1-on-1 coaching sessions right here in NYC, I show men how to:
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Build real confidence (not cheesy lines)
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Overcome anxiety about rejection
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Start genuine conversations with women—anywhere
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Become the kind of man women are naturally drawn to
It’s not about becoming a “pickup artist.”
It’s about becoming undeniably magnetic—in your own skin.
From App Frustration to Real-World Wins
“I used to waste hours swiping on dating apps with zero results. John’s coaching showed me how to meet women face-to-face—and now I actually enjoy dating again.” —Mark R., NYC
You’re not broken. You’ve just been playing the wrong game.
Dating apps work for a small % of men. But for everyone else, they’re exhausting.
What I teach isn’t a trick—it’s a transformation.
Ready to Ditch the Apps and Meet Women in the Real World?
If you’re ready to stop hiding behind a screen and start actually connecting, let’s talk.