So many of us, especially men, have our walls up so high that we don’t even know what it’s like to be open to another person.
We don’t even know what it’s like to let someone really experience what it’s like to be open, to let their guard down. It’s only in that space where amazing occurrences can happen. It’s there that people can fall in love with you, and you fall in love with them.
A lot of times we try to be funny, and that’s great.
Funny guy is fun.
But it’s not funny when it never ends. Funny guy is cool, funny guy gets people entertained. But after a while, funny guy, witty guy, loses his charm and he goes into the friend zone, or goes into the dull zone.
There’s nothing more powerful than when a man is vulnerable. And it’s a great combination to be funny and witty, and then be very open and sincere. Truly open, guard down, because there’s real power and strength in being vulnerable and being open that a real woman can feel.
Learn to let the guards down. Learn to let them drop. Learn to just be there, and stand there naked, and have the belief that everything you want and desire is coming to you.
If you’re not letting yourself be vulnerable, you’re blocking. Your blocking The Flow. You’re blocking meaningful experiences, life altering events and ultimately the manifestation of your best life.
Almost everything we do is about being connected and connecting to other people from the time you were born, up to now. It’s about human connection.
And to really achieve deep connections, there has to be a Risk.
In order to take a risk, you have to have Faith.
And what’s stops us…is the fear based thought. What stops us is what taking that risk might bring you. We might find that somehow there’s something wrong with us. Somehow there is something this other person won’t accept of us, and then it will feed into these old stories that I am not enough.
That I am weird.
That I am strange.
That I don’t have what it takes to be loved.
Of course we know that none of that is true.
If we can get in that place where we really dig ourselves, then we’ll become unstoppable. It’s good to surround yourself with people that remind you that you are entirely worthy. But that’s the kind of people you meet when you’re vulnerable. You meet other people who aren’t afraid to be vulnerable.