So how do we touch others in real interactions with real people and real situations?
We touch them lightly. Basic rules are, the hands and the arms are safe. They are always normal, safe places to touch. When a woman laughs when you make a point, you can tap, or touch her arm lightly.
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orward to disarm her and make her feel comfortable enough to come out and play. Many beautiful women are shy, especially in these initial social interactions when they don’t know someone. Also, you might be surprised to find that, in her timidity, she looks up to you as a man of high value. The best thing you can do is assume that she’s shy, rather than be abrasive or think she’s not interested.
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ut there’s no need to constantly be looking for these signs of approval from her. In fact, one of the key mistakes that guys make is looking for these signals, known as indicators of interest, from women.
Initial body language when approaching a women It’s important to have your body language facing outwards, not boxing her in,
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It is important not to get stuck in the energy of need, trying to get something from another person (i.e.:validation, a phone number, sex). This will naturally show in our body language as leaning in and pulling back a lot – pecking.
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Everything that we do or say comes from what’s going on inside of us. So often we look for external answers to resolve internal issues. As an expression of your internal state, body language is ultimately no different. Of course we can do external things that will internalize new habits within us, but we must first acknowledge that our beliefs are affecting our behavior, actions, words, and what the subtle things we are communicating beyond words.
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People often say, ‘What do you do?’ and I think that answering that question outright 8 out of 10 times is antithetical to your purpose. Ask me what I do and I’ll say, ‘Guess,’ and you’ll say, ‘O.K., I’ll guess,’ or you’ll say, ‘Oh, I don’t want to guess,’ and I’ll say, ‘Come on, don’t you think it would be more fun if we guessed?’
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