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How to Make Her Like You: A Comprehensive Guide
Are you looking to impress that special someone and make her like you? Building a connection with someone you’re interested […]
How to Flirt
Flirting, at its core, is all about playfully expressing romantic interest in someone. It can be intimidating to put yourself […]
How to successfully detach yourself from the outcome
As you may well be aware, the sun is shining, the bees are buzzing and women’s eyes are beaming with […]
The Secret To A Life Filled With Beautiful Women with Sasha Daygame
I could have called this video so many things. It’s a great interview with a close friend who inspires me […]
Good Looking Guy Game
So many guys fall into this category. They just rely on their charming smile or great head of hair […]
Dating In A Political World
In the most toxic political climate of our time, can you still go on a date and just have fun? […]
The Core of The Conversation
Many people get lost in a conversation with an attractive stranger. Here’s a guide to help you a long the […]
What Are New York City Women Thinking?
Hi Guys, Ever wonder whats going on inside the women you see everyday’s mind? What are thinking? What are they […]
Positive Masculinity
Embrace all that you are. Love all that you are. Never make yourself less so someone else can be more. […]
Empires Built To Lay at Her Feet and Yet He Still Couldn’t Say Hi 😢
Everything a man does is with love in his mind. He daydreams about “her” the first day his hormones kick […]
Your Analytical Job Is Killing Your Dating Life and The Only Cure
“Staring at computer screen for several hours a day with little real human contact; Analyzing people and data all day; […]
How Do You Make Someone Feel Loved
Make someone feel big…small…special…inconsequential…LOVED! It all comes down to this…
How To Recreate Your Identity (Live From Kiev)
Hey guys, I hope you are enjoying your summer. I’ve been traveling and coaching around Europe. Right now I am […]
How To Be Playful
Being playful is fun. Learn why it’s so important in connecting with new people. In this video I explain why […]
Become Your Own Coach
The trials and tribulations we face when we undertake a new endeavor are great! The social practice is, in my […]
Live Street Meditation and Visualization (10 Minute Transformation)
Hi Guys, This video is so powerful and proves that we can simply blink and find ourselves in a new […]
SHE is The Mirror That Reflects Your Deepest Fear Back To YOU
Hey Guys, In my personal journey to manhood and self discovery I have found women to be my greatest teacher. […]
The Awakened Lifestyle: NYC Dating Coach John Keegan Marries Opportunity & Preparation to Help Singles Organically Attract Love
MEN’S DATING HOME > TRENDING > ARTICLE The Awakened Lifestyle: NYC Dating Coach John Keegan Marries Opportunity & Preparation to […]
Rare video of John Keegan Infield and Coaching-Day Game
In this video I work with a shy guy who’s never approached women before and show him the way. First […]
Why Nice Guys Are The Real Creeps
Hi Guys, Are you so busy trying to be the “nice guy” or the “good guy” that you are actually […]
No Masturbation|John Keegan Motivational Video|
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hyghX5fHc9w John Motivational video on why you should quit masturbation and why you must connect more with women. Make sure […]
The Confidence Illusion
Hi Guys, Maybe you are making this mistake too? I spent so many of years of my life […]
Raison D’Être – The Reason For Being
Life can be confusing, distracting, and leave you feeling like you are in a constant state of struggle. Do you […]
How To Combat The Spread Of Anti-Social Disease
Hey Guys, somethings happening within us and around us. Somebody has to talk about it. So I will! There are […]
How to Connect with Strangers – John Keegan in Havanna, Cuba
One of my greatest pleasures is taking me and my ability to meet and connect with people on the road. […]
A Secret Way To See
Hi Guys, a good life is a life lived by your interest and passions. A Good life starts and ends […]
How To Be An Engaging Man
Ever feel like you don’t know how to make a conversation interesting? I hear a lot of guys say […]
Your Prime Relationship Is With YOU!
Hi Guys, throughout your life you will know many people. Both lovers and friends will change over time but you […]
The Moment Before The Most Important Moment Of Your Life
Hi Guys, I have been fortunate enough to have had many great experiences in my life! But the reality is […]
Two Simple Formulas That Will Transform Your Dating Life
One of the biggest challenges when meeting new people is getting out of own way. Most of us guys get […]
The Power of Music In Seduction
HI Guys, What kind of music do you like? What’s a song you are into right now? Musicians are often […]
The Worlds Most Misunderstood Men (Mic.com)
Hi Guys, I am featured in this article on mic.com. Its an interesting article that sheds light on a lot […]
Learn To Speak In Her Langauge
Most guys speak and think logically. They tell boring factual stories. When he doesn’t express how feels about something he […]
Game Isn’t Real!
A few years ago I worked with a client who was in his late 30’s. He had a successful business […]
What A Flakey World!
Have you ever got the courage up to talk to someone you were really attracted to? You took the risk […]
The Ultimate Prize
The journey a man takes, no matter which road he follows, will begin and end in search of this….
The Time I Accidently Creep Out Katy Perry
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zLAfLir-ZMc Hi Guys, I wanted to share a funny story about the time I unknowingly “met” Katy Perry in the […]
She Better Be Even More Awesome Than You
Hi Guys, I hope your summer has been epic. I can honestly say mine was : ) We are moving […]
The Interpreter (The Man Inside Your Head)
Hi Guys, I hope you enjoying your summer! I’m on the Croatian coast right now; Adventuring, hanging with good friends, […]
How To Connect Deeply With A Women IN Under 3 Seconds
Hi Guys, A common thing I see with most men and even many guys who claim to be good with […]
The Highest Frequency
Hi guys, the last two days Ive shared some content about “being” and the power that focus has on the […]
All That I AM Not
Hi Guys, Yesterday I shared with you “The truth of I am”. I hope it resonated with you on a […]
The Truth Of “I AM”
Hi guys, greetings from Barcelona, Spain! I just wrapped an Epic 5 Day Course Transformation course. We spent our days […]
Instincts Vs Agenda
We have natural instincts to connect with other people. We have a natural instinct to express ourselves. We have a […]
The Reason And The Cure For Your Approach Anxiety
Approach Anxiety can be debilitating! The fear rises up in your body and stops you from talking to beautiful women. […]
“The Hero’s Journey” – Barcelona July 2016 – Join Me…
Join me for a true adventure in every way! Let go of your limiting beliefs and step into the most […]
How To Get Social After A Long Day of Analytical Work
After a long day of analytical work, how do you get into the Social Flow! Join the tribe at www.theawakenedlifestyle.com […]
The Power Of 5
Over my many years of coaching and teaching the “The Social Practice” I’ve learned the most effective way to create […]
The Way To The Flow
There is a life force the flows like an eternal river of cool. How do you find your way to […]
The Porn Cleanse
The Destruction of Porn effacts so many mens lives. It has prompted me to talk about it once again. In […]
Conversation Tips: How to Answer The Big 3…
Hi Guys, What do I do after I say hello? How do I have conversation that really engages her? How do […]
Transcending Your Childhood (Anger)
In This Video I talk about shedding our childhood. Life is a constant letting go. A shedding. We have to […]
Learning To Ride The Waves: Ebbs and Flow
Hi Guys, Do you ever get seriously frustrated with women!? Do you find you try and try and somehow it […]
An Inspired Man Is An Attractive Man
Hi Guys, I know what its like to get stuck in a rut. When you are in one it feels […]
Video: Memory Motel
Hi Guys, we all have a vision of greatest self! But how many of us actually make a plan to […]
2 Things You Can Do After You Break The Ice
Many of us get stumped after we start a converstaion. We have no idea where to go next. Its a […]
The Key To Living An Amazing Lifestyle
Hi Guys, Its the begining of the year and I know a lot of us are stumbling trying to make […]
Men Using Status To “Get” Women
Whenever we label ourselves or others it creates an immediete disconnect. It removes the possibilty of a true connection and […]
How To Have An Amazing Girlfriend By Years End
In This Video I give you the simple secret to becoming a master of conversation and finding an amazing women […]
The Power Of Now and Dating (The Podcast)
When I first began my personal journey to transcend my limiting beliefs, lacking circumstance, and dismal dating life I discovered […]
Vibe Killer: Never Ask A Women This Question!
This one question is a vibe killer. Whenever a man ask it, it inevitable turns the women off and basically […]
How To Deal With Low Investment From Women
In this video I address low investment from women. One word answers, long delays in getting back, making you chase […]
Attracting The Right People Into Your Life – Low Energy Vibrating People
Attraction mean to pull. We pull people that our like ourselves into our life experience. As a man its […]
The Most Powerful Statement In The World!
The I am Statement is the most powerful statement in the world! Whatever say after that is an act of […]
The One Who Got Away and The Peaceful Mind
“If I only knew then what I know now!” “What if I did things differently”. “What If I didn’t say […]
Mindset Shift: From Anxiety to Excitement
When you see a women you desire to have in your life a sudden surge of energy courses through your […]
Get A Girlfriend Series: Warning: It only takes One
Often in our quest to get a girlfriend that will bring real joy and happiness into our lives, we […]
How To Find An Amazing Girlfriend -She Needs To get This One Thing
In This Video I talk about the importance of qualifying to find an amazing girlfriend. When you bring a […]
How To Know If A Girl Likes You
Figuring out how to know if a girl likes you can be confusing. In this video I give some good […]
How to Talk to Women: The Basics
Want to learn even more about talking to, meeting, and attracting women? Click here to sign up for my FREE […]
How To Develop Your Own Social Practice
World renowned dating coach John Keegan shares his amazing journey towards self-actualization through meeting and connecting with women genuinely and […]
Sex Tips: Your Brain On Porn
Watch this video to learn what porn does to your social, dating, and sex life. If You want to have […]
Attraction Tips: Your Haunted Mind (It’s Dark In There)
Inside most of our minds lives a world we would rather not talk about. If we are to self actualize […]
Attraction Tips: How To Have The Perfect Body
In our quest for perfection. We often lose sight of the reason we want perfection. In this video, I […]
Dating Tips: The Easy Way To Open Any one
See It and Say It. This Technique is so simple yet so powerful! It’s the key to striking up a […]
Law of Attraction and Meeting Women
What a lot of men fail to realize, in there quest to meet the ultimate women, is that it’s not […]
Dating Tips: Loneliness
The feeling of loneliness is pervasive in our society. Most of us feel it on some level and do just […]
The Most Powerful Mindset: Of All Time
Today, I wanted to share with you a powerful mindset that can shift your whole world view with just 3 […]
How To Be The Most Attractive Guy In The Room – The Truth Shouts
So many people get caught up in acquiring things or achievements to define their self worth. They make their identity […]
The 30 Day Tinder Challenge
I challenge you to delete every dating app and remove yourself from every online dating site for 30 days. These […]
Breaking The Literal Pattern: How To Not Be Boring
Today I want to share with you one of the Core Principles of my teaching. It’s a concept I call […]
How To Flirt With Ease
Do you ever feel stiff when you are talking to a women? You feel like you analyzing every word flying […]
How To Make Every Conversation Exciting: The Listening Exercise
To secret to fun exciting conversations is Listening. In this video I teach you how to make meaningful connections through […]
Improvisation and Meeting Women
In this video I teach you how to be fun, silly, and playful. Its a great video to […]
Get Into The Ultimate State: The State of Authenticity
I often hear guys say “I have to get into state”. Like there is this magic state to get into […]
How To Give A Direct Compliment To A Girl On The Street (Live InField)
This short video shows you how to quickly introduce yourself to a girl. Even though she is extremely busy will […]
The Social Life With David Wygant and John Keegan
Do you section off your social life between the hours of 10pm and 2am on Saturday night. So many people […]
Conversation Tips: What To Do When You Can’t Think Of Anything To Say
I’m not sure what to say so I am just not going to say anything. That’s the story of […]
Inner Game Tips: The Way To The Greatest Outcome
We spend our lives seeking an outcome just outside of ourselves but often the greatest outcome alludes us. Watch this […]
Lifestyle Tips: Why You Need To Cultivate An Adventurous Spirit
Its a vital importance that a man tap into his curiosity and develop a thirst for discovering the world before […]
The Amazing Power Of Visualization
Wherever you are right now, whether in a dusty room, a ghetto, a mansion in hopeless relationship, through the power […]
Inner Game Tips: Standing On The Edge Of Reality
Living On The Edge Of Your Own Reality. Imagine living life this way…pushing yourself past your small circle of comfort […]
Appreciating Where You Stand: Finding The Beauty in Everything
The Core of Attraction is Appreciation. Many people are to busy trying to get somewhere to really appreciate […]
Dating Tips: The Seinfeld Principle
All the characters on Seinfeld love to pick people apart to the smallest levels. We love to watch them for […]
Are You A Visionary?
Do you have a vision for your life? For your dating life, for your relationship life, what do you want […]
What Does An Attractive Man Believe In
Are your beliefs destroying your ability to experience the life you desire? Are your beliefs keeping you stuck and alienated […]
How To Become Ageless
How old are you? How many times do you get asked that question, how often does it feel good to […]
The Little Dictator Inside Your Mind
We live in a politically correct world, that has for the past several years gotten even more and more extreme. […]
On to the Next Suffering
Let’s have a look at our lives, our day to day. We strive for some great experience, craving it. Desiring it. Yearning […]
She’s Like A Rainbow and Yet You Make Her Grey
So Many guys miss the moment when attempting to connect with a women. They are so focused on the outcome […]
5 Lessons an Actor Knows That Will Transform Your Life
For many years I was an actor in NYC. I devoted my life too it. I studied with great teachers, […]
Moving Beyond Every Single Risk Point
In any given conversation, there’s a series of places where most people stop. They give up. More accurately they give […]
The Ultimate Mind Set: The Social Explorer
When flirting with the opposite sex, we often get into a hunter and prey mindset. Straight away, we fall into […]
The Most Romantic Story Ever Told: The Story of How We Met
The Story of “how we met”! One of the Most important stories a couple has. A story that, when in […]
Men – Why You Need To Be Beautiful
Beauty is not a word often attributed to men, and it’s not something men often aspire to. More often, adjectives […]
The Art of Settling In
Most men go into hunting mode when they want to meet a women.They walk around the bar, the streets, the […]
There Is No “One Day” (Remove the Obstacle)
There is no “One Day”. There is only what is happening right now and what you want and what’s in […]
Never Assume: Assumptions Stop You From Connecting With Amazing Women
Do You always assume your way out of connecting with great women? I see it all the time. A guy […]
He Stood In A Dusty Room (Financial Insecurity)
“He stood in a dusty room… he looked around and saw no doors” So you’re in a spot in your […]
How To Use A Prop To Break The Ice
You find yourself standing next to an attractive women in the bookstore, super market, coffee shop, etc… you want to […]
Be With The C (Stillness and Focus)
When you’re with a woman, focus on taking it one step at a time. Think about the step you’re in, […]
How To Not Creep Her Out (a Painfully Familiar Tale)
In this video I tell a real life Story about one of my friends who is typically good with women […]
Take yourself Outside the Box and Peak Back Inside (Practicing Detachment)
Have a look around. Sit at a cafe on a good street, and do some people watching. Drive down a […]
Zen and The Art of Meeting and Connecting With Women
Imagine a way of life where you are continually connecting with amazing women and at the same time transcending all […]
Your Biggest Challenge Isn’t What You Think
Your biggest challenge is not that you don’t have a girlfriend. Your biggest challenge is not that sometimes you have […]
2046 – The Self Realized Man
Is it a movie? Is It a Year? I share how a movie opened my eyes to the way of […]
Are You Operating From a Faulty Paradigm?
Most of us go through existence feeling like we’re not good enough, feeling like we don’t have enough, hoping that […]
The New Year and The Man You Really Are
Hey guys, happy new year. I know a lot of you are thinking about what you want to achieve this […]
Interview: How to Create an Amazing Lifestyle with James Marshall (Barcelona)
I Interview James Marshall of The Natural Lifestyles on How to Create the Lifestyle of your Dreams. James is a […]
Keep Calm and Follow Through
Recently, I eloquently persuaded a friend to take a 21-day yoga challenge. We’re already on day eight, and I just […]
Lifestyle Series: Creating A Social Network – The Dinner Party!
Flirting and being social is so much more than just meeting someone to hookup with or finding someone to be […]
Core Attraction: The Key Is Vibrant Health
If it didn’t live or grow…Don’t eat it! That was great advice given to me by Jeffrey Rose, the world […]
Drop The Agenda and Watch The Magic
The Agenda ridden mind has no peace. Most guys deal with women as means to an end. What end? To […]
Is Your Life Like Being John Malkovich?
In Being John Malkovich, a shy man goes out and tries to express himself by becoming a puppet master. He’s […]
Be A Present Tense Person
Super Attraction comes from being present. The more present you are the more attractive you are. You become free, light […]
The Right Way To Flirt With The Waitress or The Shop Girl
Every Guy Wants to date the beautiful waitress or the cute shop girl who is being friendly while she helps […]
Practicing The Power Of Now (The Social Practice)
The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle is perhaps the most profound book ever written.
It’s all about how to become […]
Wake Up! What Tinder Is Really Doing To You
Tinder and other dating sites have made many men docile and given them a way to avoid directly dealing with […]
The Opposite Sex is Not Your Enemy or Your Opposite
It’s been going on for a long time. It’s like we’ve been hearing phrases like, “the battle of the sexes” […]
Are You Practicing Being a Sociopath?
At one point, you decided the skills you had with connecting with women weren’t working for you. You needed to […]
A Gentleman Is A Gentleman With Everybody (Not Just Hot Bodies)
So Many men divide women into categories. “She’s a 10” or “there’s a 6” I often hear them say. This […]
Dealing with Frustration
In the world of men meeting women, you come face-to-face with all of your limitations. It’s so easy to fall […]
Breaking The Glass Wall and The Sound of The Night
When You Lie in your bed at night and you recap your day how do you feel? Do you feel […]
Stories and Transformation (Change the story; Transform your life)
In this Video I teach you internal practices to let go of the stories we tell ourselves that keep us […]
I have amazing powers of observation- (Practice this today)
It’s our ability to observe our world around us, our ability to observe the people in it; and exactly what’s […]
Grains of Sand: Never Freeze With A Woman Again
The biggest prison we can live in is the fear of what other people think. Have you ever wanted […]
Moving Beyond The Fear of Rejection (Social Freedom)
The Fear of Rejection stops us from really Living the life we desire. Rejection is something everyman must face over […]
Every Place Has A Rhythm: Tune In and Connect With Women Everywhere
I get this all the time. “I’m good in the club but not in the daytime.” Or” I’m good on […]
The Essence of the Ladies Man
A Lady’s man doesn’t have a single type. Blonde hair, blue eyes, black hair, olive skin, he’s attracted to all […]
The Tale of Icy and Sot: A Secret of The Universe
The Tale of Icy and Sot “Two men look through bars. One saw the dirt, and the other saw the stars.”-Dale […]
NY Times: One in 8 Million “The Ladies Man” John Keegan
5 years ago the NY Times did this Poetic and Timeless story on me. Pulitzer Prize winning Photo Journalist Todd […]
The 5 Day Transformation Course – In Miami – January 2015
Hi Friend, Change you personal, social and dating life now! Join me and an Amazing group of guys in South […]
The Path To Authenticity Part IX: Master Breaking the Ice, Any Time, With Anyone, Anywhere
I’ve been sharing A lot about the “Way you Be” now I want to connect that to “What you Do”. […]
The Path To Authenticity: Part VIII – The Instincts The Awakened Man Cultivates
To transcend your past self and all that limits you, you must look inward. When you accept that you are […]
The Path To Authenticity: Part III – Who’s Dream Are You Dreaming?
In this video, I Take you further along The Path To Authenticity. I reveal the way to true freedom and […]
The One Thing You Need To Do To Create Real Transformation
If you want to be amazing at anything, if there is an area of your life that you really would […]
Dealing With The Voices In Your Head
When you’re about to go talk to a beautiful woman, and that hesitation comes over you, that anxiety, that apprehension […]
Where Are You Operating From?
Where is the place that all your actions and the words that fly out of your mouth are coming from? […]
Be Vulnerable
So many of us, especially men, have our walls up so high that we don’t even know what it’s like […]
Who’s Dream are You Dreaming?
“Dream beyond the dreams you were given and I will Dream with you.” We have job titles, or we have […]
Be the Rock Star of your own Life
What are rock stars going for? What are we all really going for? What does the rock star represent? Why […]
The Essence of Attraction
If you want to understand attraction, you need to know the essence of attraction. This is a simple formula. Attraction […]
What is Meditation?
Meditation means to still the mind. Essentially, people meditate for one real reason, and that’s to stop the incessant stream […]
You’re a Natural. You just don’t know it
You have instincts. You have amazing powers of observation; you just stopped listening to them. You just stop using them. […]
Stories and Letting Go
All day, every day, everywhere people are telling stories. We’re wired to them. We love them. People tell them to […]
The Power Of Pain
Are you in pain? If so, you’re in luck. Pain is one of the great teachers of change. When you’re […]
John Keegan on MSN Living-Love/Sex/Dating
Be authentic As a former actor, dating coach John Keegan knows that being fake doesn’t help you connect with other […]
John Keegan on Mansome: HOW TO APPROACH ANY WOMAN
John Keegan on Mansome: HOW TO APPROACH ANY WOMAN Click the Link to Watch John give Mansome Host Roger […]
John Keegan in Entrepreneur Magazine
"The biggest thing I do is help men really like themselves and have fun being themselves while doing what they were born to do -- connect,"
Humans of New York-Interview “The Dating Coach” By Brandon Stanton
The Dating Coach April 28th, 2011 by Brandon Stanton http://www.humansofnewyork.com/2011/04/28/the-dating-coach/ I consider myself a charming individual. I’ve got a real […]
“Online dating is a way for millions of people to hide behind their fears and insecurities”:
The Huffington Post: Watch John Keegan, Dating Coach: "Online dating is a way for millions of people to hide behind their fears and insecurities":
The Dating Coach on Spike Tv (episode 2 of 2)
In this Episode I guide Luke H. Simmons host of Spike Tv's Man to Man past some limiting beliefs, through a little anxiety, and ultimately into a conversation with an attractive women. Watch as Luke breaks the ice in New York City's Washington Square Park.
The Dating Coach on Spike Tv (John Keegan)
John Keegan Dating Coach teaches Spike Tv's Luke H. Simmons how to meet the women he desires in broad daylight...
AIMbitious Video Interview 2 -Awaken To An Enlightened Relationship
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Aimbitious Video Interview Part 1- Awaken to An Enlightened Relationship
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Awaken To An Enlightened Relationship
Everyone knows there’s more to dating than meets the eye, but after you meet John Keegan, you’ll learn that there’s more to a dating coach, too. With a degree in psychology, a dream of acting, and a passion for spiritual books, John Keegan headed to New York City, and, along the way, founded his mission: “to meet, connect and build relationships in more meaningful ways, with new people, in everyday situations.”
Situational Awareness…A Must Read Article On The Essence of New York
The heart of what I teach is to live in Inspiration and act upon it. New York City can be […]
She’s Says I’ll Take Your Number…Now What?
The worst thing to do is allow her to take your number. Even though the girl enjoys your company and finds you to be attractive, she’s often says, “Well, I'll take your number." Maybe it's a sign she feels like this is weird, or that she doesn't want to appear easy to get. Maybe she's not quite comfortable with you yet. Rather than looking at it as some kind of test,
How To Set Up The “Date”
The second best thing to the instant date is to set up a time and a place for a later date. This is really important. This is a way to see how solid your interaction was, to let her know that this is a romance between a man and a woman. So, for example
The Instant Date-A How To Guide
The best thing we can do after meeting someone is to go on an instant date. This means, having had the initial interaction, you’re now going to move somewhere else to hang out.
Are You Stuck In Your Head?
The way out of this self-sabotage is to listen to her and respond off of what she's saying rather than from the negative voices in your head. If you're really listening, your body language is going to be just fine. By listening, relating, and responding to her, you will be in a more relaxed state, which will automatically come through your posture, gestures and expression.
John Keegan is taking New Submissions Private Coaching
The Mastery Course (6 weeks 12 Sessions) Finer tuning, deeper insights, additional practice and consultation. If you want the pinnacle […]
Touching is Important…But How?
So how do we touch others in real interactions with real people and real situations?
We touch them lightly. Basic rules are, the hands and the arms are safe. They are always normal, safe places to touch. When a woman laughs when you make a point, you can tap, or touch her arm lightly.
The Power of Mirroring
In mirroring, if you're sitting across a table from someone, they lean in, you lean in, they lean back, you lean back, they look away, you look away. You're literally mirroring their behavior to establish trust and put people at ease. It’s important to combine mirroring with listening,
Her Eye Contact and The Absolute Strongest Frame You Can Have
orward to disarm her and make her feel comfortable enough to come out and play. Many beautiful women are shy, especially in these initial social interactions when they don't know someone. Also, you might be surprised to find that, in her timidity, she looks up to you as a man of high value. The best thing you can do is assume that she's shy, rather than be abrasive or think she's not interested.
Her Body Language
ut there's no need to constantly be looking for these signs of approval from her. In fact, one of the key mistakes that guys make is looking for these signals, known as indicators of interest, from women.
The Right Way To Approach A Women
Initial body language when approaching a women It’s important to have your body language facing outwards, not boxing her in, […]
How To Stop Communicating Nervous Needy Energy
It is important not to get stuck in the energy of need, trying to get something from another person (i.e.:validation, a phone number, sex). This will naturally show in our body language as leaning in and pulling back a lot – pecking.
Beliefs and Body Language
Everything that we do or say comes from what's going on inside of us. So often we look for external answers to resolve internal issues. As an expression of your internal state, body language is ultimately no different. Of course we can do external things that will internalize new habits within us, but we must first acknowledge that our beliefs are affecting our behavior, actions, words, and what the subtle things we are communicating beyond words.
Who Are You Seeking Approval From?
Here are the most powerful ways to avoid falling into the frame of seeking approval and to become the approver in any interaction:
The New York Times Profile of me “The Ladies Man” (in Print)
People often say, 'What do you do?' and I think that answering that question outright 8 out of 10 times is antithetical to your purpose. Ask me what I do and I'll say, 'Guess,' and you'll say, 'O.K., I'll guess,' or you'll say, 'Oh, I don't want to guess,' and I'll say, 'Come on, don't you think it would be more fun if we guessed?'
Acting, Dating, And Being Authentic -An Interview
I recently did an interview Betterfly Journalist Beatta Aldridge. In this interview I discus the core of being connected to […]
One in 8 Million: New York Characters in Sound and Images
PHOTOS (PHOTOGRAPHS BY TODD HEISLER/THE NEW YORK TIMES) The Ladies’ Man John Keegan, 35, hires himself out as a coach […]
5 Easy Rules Daters Should Live By
Lovelies: The weekend. Sigh. I worked on my novel for most of it. Last Monday, my agent told me she thought […]
Subverting the Usual (Boring) Get-to-Know-You Q’s
Subverting the Usual (Boring) Get-to-Know-You Q’s by Maura Kelly Lovelies: I scored some points in favor of living flirtatiously over […]
3 Ways to Gain Power (By Granting Approval) in a Flirtation
3 Ways to Gain Power (By Granting Approval) in a Flirtation by Maura Kelly Lovelies: I’m grouchy today: I didn’t […]
4 Tips for Starting Conversations While Holiday Shopping
4 Tips for Starting Conversations While Holiday Shopping December 18, 2009 11:57 AM by Maura Kelly Lovelies: As promised, my […]
3 Ways to Get a Guy While Holiday Shopping
Marie Claire dating blogger Maura Kelly gets some great, fun advice from dating coach John Keegan about how to make […]
What is the purpose behind The Awakened Lifestyle?
What is the purpose behind The Awakened Lifestyle? I recently received an email from someone who read about me in […]
Help Us Help You: Ten Ways to Meet A Great Guy
Help Us Help You: Ten Ways to Meet A Great Guy By: John Keegan (View Profile) So many beautiful and interesting […]
Who Are You Seeking Approval From? By: NYC Dating Coach John Keegan
Who Are You Seeking Approval From? Seeking the approval of others is something most of us do on some level. […]
Help Us Help You: Ten Ways to Meet A Great Guy – DivineCaroline
So many beautiful and interesting women I know can’t meet a great guy because they are closing themselves off to […]